(((((wisewoman)))))
We don't really understand what happened either, even after reading all the posts.
(((((everyone who's feelings are hurt)))))
There is room for all of us here, imo.
We don't all have to read every thread, after all. If someone is uncomfortable with a thread, they don't have to read it. They can start other threads, that discuss what they want. Surely, this is how the site/forum is supposed to work.
Diversity is more common than similarity in DD, & our non-DD contributers to this forum provide a lot of support for our various personalities.

We don't think it would be productive to insist on a dx for everyone who posts here. It doesn't matter, and half the dxs will be wrong anyway.