I work as a Domestic Violence Advocate, Activist and Educator. Your boyfriend sounds like a emotional abuser. Which can lead to Psychological a then physical abuse. Do not let his works make you feel bad about yourself. That is part of the cycle that they weave. You want to build yourself up and not let him tear it down. Let me know if you need more answers I am here for you.
Lilith
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