I hear you. I'm not sure of the answer unfortunately. I seem to trade food and self-injury myself. Feels like I can manage one or the other, but not both. I'm really working hard on the self-injury part of it right now. I guess part of the answer is learning to accept yourself, realizing that it's okay to ask for help even if you're don't appear to be one of the walking wounded, understanding that we all have flaws and it's okay not to be perfect. Sounds pretty good, now how do I get there?

Wish I could be of more help, Quay