DA

Maybe you don't feel that you are good with decisions but it seems to me like you are in good hands with this decision: your own hands.

I thing you are doing this exactly the right way... understanding that the "connection" with the right T is important and seeking that... and also giving the T a chance to get to know you and for you to get to know him before making a decision. Give it as much time as you need and then "trust your gut".

And of course keep posting and we'll help you out always.