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Originally Posted by googley
I felt her opinion of me change when she read the review, but I tried to ignore it. I tried to tell myself that I was reacting to something that wasn't really there. That I was imagining her change in opinion. But now that the issue has come up again, I am seeing it again. And this time I can't ignore it. I asked her if she believed in me, and she couldn't give me an answer. She hesitated a moment too long for her response to have been natural. The way she turned it back into a question just made that silence seem like it could be nothing other than 'no'.
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Hmm, is that right? If a client asked you the same quesitons, what would you say? Wouldn't you pause for a few moments first to digest the issues at hand and then to think about how best to help this particular client? I think you are giving her a lot to think about - which is fair enough. Do you think you are again wondering, like before, whose side she is on?