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Old Nov 27, 2010, 09:15 PM
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I feel as if my need to keep repeating the destructive aspect of any relationship has gone, I am very aware of what a successful rehabilitation of a relationship with someone feels like now, I have mastered it, I have a new experience, it feels wonderful.
This is healing at such a deep level. Congratulations. Sounds momentous. It is so important to have the experience of doing something different, and learning how that feels. It can be like suddenly the gears and levers all slide into place and the broken timepiece suddenly works. Just feels so right.

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I saw life like a battle that needed to be survived, but now thats all changed, I see positiveness and creativeness and less evil in the world.

Its good!
Yay!!! I am happy for you, Melba.
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Thanks for this!
Melbadaze