If you take the definition a bit beyond the scope of the DSM criteria and find an answer please post or PM me... I have found one of the quickest ways to determine if a man is a sociopath (in a more broad sense than DSM) is that I have dated them.

I do know one factor... for a smart chick I can be very nieve. My social skills are not congruent with what I have to offer a relationship... So... while I have a lot of good qualities my social skills keep me isolated. Many people with less than steller motives are able to hone in on me in a crowd very quickly. Someone with my qualities shouldn't be as alone as I am... May as well have a flashing neon light over my head!