My boyfriend, Mr. Crazy plays guitar in 2 bands. One of these bands often plays shows that have burlesque dancers also. Burlesque dancing really bothers me as I don't see the difference between that & stripping. I feel that if I want to go see a good music show I don't want to have to be subjected to that also. I personally think burlesque dancing should only be allowed in strip clubs & at private parties, not at regular music venues. Everytime he plays one of these shows it hurts my feelings & we have a big fight over it. He says it is more important to him than me (which really says it all, doesn't it?) & I don't have a way to leave him as I am responsible for 3 kids, one of them is his, and I am trying to get along with him for their sake. How can I get over this? Am I nuts?