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Originally Posted by Sannah
This would be true if you leave upset and they wanted to make you upset. The key to pulling this off is to not be upset. Is this possible for you?
Could you leave just long enough where you don't have to listen to her and she stops and moves on and then you can come back? The point of doing it this way is that the point isn't to punish anyone, the point is to only protect yourself from her. Again, don't be upset. (Because her rudeness says more about her than anything about you).
In these situations can you just ignore him since you have to weigh which one you are going to put up with?
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Hi Sannah,
Great way of clarifying #1 and yeah you're right, i guess for #3 i just have to pick and choose and both choices suck since if i go with them, i'll be angry and brooding because he'll piss me off for sure, it happens every time.
If i dont go with him, i'll be angry and brooding again because I'll feel like it isn't fair!
But i guess I'll just have to choose the lesser of the two evils, but both are pretty close
And with number two, the issue is that if i get up and leave, topic will change, yes, but the moment i come back, she'll say something about me again.. I'm not paranoid because i've experienced this with her thousand times, she'll stare at me and then try to comment on anything and everything. SHe's said my butts too fat when I know i have an awesome butt (guys love it) or she'll be like "wow, you have a zit on your neck, ewww".. when I won't, i dont get zits, i have normal skin but i do get oil trapped in pores (sorry if it sounds gross)
But point of this is that she'll come back to me someway or the other, just to put me down..