Thanks guys for replying

Triggers? That makes it sound like it's a bad thing? To me, trigger sounds like you're trying to get rid of it because it causes you anxiety? Is this the case?

The other night, I was at a bar and this guy heard me talking on the phone to someone in German, and he instantly thought it was a greenlight to hit on me... obviosuly, I blew him off... in not in a good way

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