((((((((((Preacher))))))))))

What you are saying about your T makes perfect sense to me. He doesn't sound cold...it sounds to me like you can really feel his caring, and for me, that is huge.

I know it's a little off topic (sorry, rainbow!), but I know that I feel kind of yuck when I feel like people aren't "getting" my T. So I just wanted to jump in and throw some support to you and your T