Talk away, widgets! Hear you. Though our particular situations are different, there are times when we just need to talk about stuff that's going on. I'm in that same kind of place right now. Sorry for what is going on for you right now, but glad that you can talk about it and we can be here to listen and care.

Edited to add... Your thread title immediately caught my eye. Yes. That is what it is. Exactly. (Though, again, our situations are different.... you just worded it so perfectly... Just wanted ya to know! )