hillbunny,

Thank you so much for your response. I WAY liked the way you explained it as well. I so agree! When I first began to see T, I had no boundaries either. I mean none! After alot of hard work, I put several in place. I couldn't keep up. I just couldn't.

Thank you for sharing how far we can go with the "what if" questions. I think mine get alot worse the higher my overall anxieties are.

Thank you for asking after hubby. He's SLOWLY coming around. The drugs are helping, but dragging him down a bit. Right now, he's opting for the lesser of two evils...being the drugs.

I hope you have a good nite!

KD