Thank you all! My husband has an appt with the ACS guy this afternoon, we shoudl find out then if we they're going to help us or not. As for talking to a lawyer, we're military, so I'm assuming we could talk to JAG, for free. I hadn't thought of that. Thanks! I"m still hoping it won't come to that.

And everything with the new job is dragging out. Now they're saying it will be around christmas. He needs to go! The sooner the better! We were hoping he'd be gone by now.

Saw my pdoc today, she wanted to stick me back into the hosptial, just in case we get bad news today. I said no. I feel I can handle it now. I hope anyway.