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Originally Posted by Distressed2010
3. I have done this once before where she really irritated me in a family group setting, I got up and left, and every single person (there were 3) in the group came one by one to tell me "come out now! stop sitting in the clouds, just come out, its not that big of a deal she didn't really say anything, stop it, you're just looking for attention.".
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They said it. What did your mind say to you, inside? They may be right, they must be right? But some others (here) are telling you, maybe not. You have some allies here.
Sometimes, if you can keep your own understanding inside your mind, you don't have to immediately react to what others are doing. Then if you can do that (not necessarily easy) you can
choose how to respond (outside) to what others are doing, and not feel forced.