i didn't even talk about it ever, my problems, the family problems until i was forced into therapy for my anger. my family ignored their problems with my brother for years. they still are, but he is grown now. it still hurts when they want to sweep things under the rug. its slow for my parents coming to the reality that i was neglected by them. this would all be easier if i wasn't living at home with them. my therapist says i cant really address this until i live away from them. but that'll be awhile as i am sick. so i have to deal with it here. not having their firm validation of what happened and what's happening now breaks my heart. its a struggle either way.