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Old Nov 30, 2010, 02:00 AM
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Originally Posted by ballet_girl View Post
How are you supposed to sit with the feelings that hurt too much? How do you force yourself to allow them in?
Good question and this did come to mind when I first posted. I was thinking that some others have some really heavy feelings going on about some really heavy things. I guess this is when you take it to therapy and receive some assistance on it.

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are you sad about having to leave?
No, not at all!

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shame its not this side of the atlantic, I'd invite you round for tea!
It is on your side of the Atlantic but I'm still too far away to come for tea! Thanks for the invite though!

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Originally Posted by BlackCanary View Post
so you can take a good memory home?
I do have good memories, and I did have a good time here too. At the 4 month mark, however, I just had enough........

Thank you Fins, BPD and Jazzy for replying.

We went to someone's house for dinner last night and another foreign couple was there also. Everyone spoke in English and this was very nice so the language barrier is a big part of it plus the locals who were there were very "internationalized" so I felt more at home. I never would have thought how hard it is to not be around others who are familiar.
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