Rainbow, I think that what you are doing can work. I look at any of this work as mirroring somewhat what would happen if it were an actual child (because correct child development is what needs to happen). Children need to be cared for so that they can learn to care for themselves. My children are already reaching that stage where they are relying on me less and it is my job to allow them to do it. But this needs to be done with great knowledge by the therapist so that the client can be released when the time comes. (And so that the client actually reaches that stage).

I agree that it worked for Treehouse and I also agree with Treehouse that helping professionals can love their clients. I have loved them and it is different than a regular relationship because there are strict boundaries but IT STILL IS LOVE! And this love is very healing when combined with proper psychological techniques.