Jenn you and I have discussed this issue at length and you know my opinions. I am so sorry that this is still an issue for you.
Keep in mind that this will continue to be an issue forever. Even after the kids turn 18 there are college, wedding... life expenses. BF made a choice to have four children, the consequences for that choice are lifelong for him. That ship has sailed and the end of the storm is no where in sight.
PLEASE!!!! I know that I've mentioned this to you before. I don't want to harp, but please, please, please keep all of this in mind if you decide to have a baby with him. The role of evil ex might be you in a few years.
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I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children.
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