Thanks for all the replies, gave me something to think about, but I believe in sex after marriage so we wouldn't do that. Someone also mentioned what I think of "dating". I see it as someone to love and care about, and hug when feeling sad or just as a way of greeting. plus cuddling with while watching movies at my house, talk on the phone every few days. That's basically it, and my I'm almost 15 and she is 12 and 8 months or something so yeah just saying.