Hi guys,

I'm new here. I recently had my heart broken by my girlfriend of nine months. It wasn't a hostile break-up but it was heart wrenching for me. After nine months of feeling loved and needed, I suddenly feel like my love was good for nothing. After nine months of feeling like I had a wonderful relationship with my girlfriend and feeling like we could talk to each other about anything, she breaks up with me telling me that she felt like she couldn't talk to me because I would get upset if she told me I was too needy. While it's true that I may have been a little bit needy, I was under the impression that she liked the attention and she never gave me any signs otherwise. I also did not "smother" her 24-7. I would want to text her a lot and see her a couple times a day but considering we go to the same college I feel that was reasonable. I just feel like I was hung out to dry and not given any chance to change my "suffocating" ways. I feel gypped physically, emotionally, and mentally. I feel like she got her closure by letting me know how she really felt after a few weeks of unhappiness and I just got rejected by someone I loved deeply. It's been a couple weeks and I'm getting better every day but I still feel confused. Does anybody have any insight on this?

Thanks!