Can your husband help you get the mere basics out the way? I think you really just need to focus on doing the most basic things and leave everything else to fend for itself. Don't be hard on yourself, don't take on any projects, don't commit to anything, just look after yourself. And if it means a few days in the hospital - yes; AGAIN! - then so be it. Washing yourself will be taken care of, and your meds can finally be adjusted in controlled environment - I actually cannot believe the amount of med adjustments you've been through in the last few weeks.

Hope things look up for you soon - take it easy, stay in bed, watch TV, read a book... When you feel strong enough, encourage yourself to go for a walk in the fresh air; it'll bring you on in leaps and bounds