Don't take this for more than what it is and that is just my view based on what you are saying.

On one hand your mom is not getting it but you are not helping by not seeing the big picture with your sexual inclinations.

Sex is not for mental healing and it is not a toy you just play with. Oh that is the way Hollywood would have you believe it is. It is not like getting on a roller coaster.

Yes people will tell you it is but they are lying, trust me. There are countless studies that prove that bear this out. A callous or casual view of sex has never worked and never will it is just that simple.

Especially at your age. Perhaps these types of rationalizations are making it harder for your mom to grasp your problem.

I know it isn't helping you.

PS- this may appear to be a moral post, but the statistics don't lie nor do people in therapy and in anonymous studies