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Old Dec 01, 2010, 10:47 AM
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Hi - I'm sorry you were hurt. But you've said a couple of things that give me a clue.

You said you didn't "smother" her alot - which means you DID smother her, just not alot. Well, obviously she doesn't like to be smothered AT ALL. Then you said you texted her alot. That can be very annoying - and she probably felt like you were checking up on her. No one wants to feel like that. My ex used to check up on me ALL the time - even if I said I was going to my mothers, he would call me there with some stupid excuse for calling. That infuriated me!!!

Maybe you don't need space, but most people do. Most people want to have some time to themselves to do whatever it is they want to do, without being texted, called, or whatever. And especially NO smothering!!

I'm glad you're starting to feel better. No point in sitting home moping about it. Get back out there and find someone new. There's someone out there for you - I'm sure of it. God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee
Thanks for this!
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