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Originally Posted by Bridger
Their marriage is not your responsibility, it is his.
Their marriage is not your problem, it is his.
The guilt here is not yours, it is his.
You did not betrays someones trust. He did.
He made his bed, and he will have to lie in it.
You followed your heart, not your head. Your way out is to do the opposite. Follow rationality. Follow logic. Follow your head and ignore your heart.
What I think you should do is find distance. Such a relationship is doomed to fail. You are setting yourself up for emotional chaos. Much greater than it already is.
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It's partly her fault. She knew what she was doing. Yeah, it's mostly his responsibility, but she knew what she was doing and they both got caught up in the moment, so some of the guilt and problem does go to her, but it was a mistake. Mistakes happen and you can't really help who you fall for