I agree with bebop and I wasn't even going to respond to your post because I can't stand cheaters and I don't want to hurt your feelings. I know this pain all too well and it opens a gaping hole in a person's soul. I think you're both responsible not just him - personally I could never cheat on my partner or if I was single, I wouldn't take another woman's man. I wouldn't want to disrespect a fellow woman by doing this. For him to take you to THEIR home, that's low. He doesn't even have the right to go to the ethics class. Karma means - what goes around comes around.