Distressed girl - Vampyre is WAY too young to be drinking and engaging in sexual acts. The situation she is in now will affect her for the rest of her life.
Lynn P is doing what any good mother should - look after her kids and guide them. Yes, there's a time when you need to start giving your kids some space to learn their own lessons, but lessons on sex and alcohol DO NOT begin at age 13/14!!

Vampyre - I hope you can find the support that you require during this difficult time. I would also suggest trying to find a therapist, but I'm not too sure how easy it will be without your mother's support.
All the best