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like sannah said if you get the help you need to vent your feelings you can overcome being a victim and become a survivor. it worked for me.
as for your abuser they will just move on to the next person. yeah we wish they'd suffer for their actions but that will lead us nowhere. abusers rarely change. however YOU can become whole again. that's more important. as long as we stay in that hole we are still allowing the abuser to control our life even if they've moved on. why allow them that power over us?
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle.
The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand
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