Thank you shadow for saying something... I have not been able to be around much due to my own dx's... but I fought hard for y'all to have this forum and have always worked to keep it extra safe for you too! I'm sorry something happened while I was gone (though I'm not sure it had anything to do with my being gone)..... I want everyone to know that most of the long-term members here also help keep this forum "safe" from harmful words and others who don't realize how it needs to be "different" Please, if anything happens like this again, PM me (and the mods, too) and say something. Find a strong part and speak up .. there are plenty of members here who want to help! :in_love: (((safe hugs))

don't forget, my screen name has the underline before it _Sky.