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Old Dec 02, 2010, 09:54 AM
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Originally Posted by SUNNY2009 View Post
I guess I am reacting a little to him getting married....

I guess I kinda feel like a kid who doesnt want to share him....

inside I feel like a kid that has her arms folded across her chest pouting! "I dont want to be happy for him!" bratty....

I guess I need to work through whatever it is that is nagging at me inside...

I wish I was normal like people who never had to deal with these issues .... I guess I wish I could grow up to meet someone like him...

so silly....41 and still trying to figure life out.... and how to be close to people and be healthy
I'm glad that you want to stay and work through this. This is how you get better - when these things come up and yes, these things do come up when you are working on issues.

I got beyond wishing that I had a better upbringing. I was/am just glad that I am figuring things out and moving forward. Remember "an unexamined life isn't worth living". It really is okay.
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