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Old Dec 02, 2010, 02:13 PM
KathyM KathyM is offline
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Hi Baltazar

I don't think it's possible for another person to provide you with guaranteed safety and passion. It shouldn't be their mission/purpose/goal in life, just as your goal in life shouldn't be completely centered around someone else. Each person can only give so much of themselves to someone else, even when they are completely devoted to each other.

Maybe you can focus more on feeling safe with yourself and finding your own passion for life. You might find more passion in a safe man, and you might find more safety in a passionate man.


I hope you find what you are looking for in a relationship.
Thanks for this!
Amy