Shadow,

What a beautiful, warm post including a pleading straight from the heart. I second it and repeat it almost as I would a prayer.

I would like to add...

The beauty and diversity of potential dx's in this room is a miracle and a testament of survival. The common bonds that bring us together are diverse and many.

I don't think that it should matter what particular point we're at in our individual journeys (pre-dx, no dx, first month in therapy, 40 years in therapy, no therapy), but that we share the same journey...what a fantastic trip it can be! We need to concentrate on the common bonds of survival and existing goals.

Let's please unite in our shared pains, fears, goals, dreams, heartaches, joys, etc.. Let's please be to each other what we dream of when we close our eyes and dream about pure support...non-judging, non-critical, quality of life saving support.

Are we different? Sure! Many of us are drastically different within as well. Let's celebrate that! Being different and creativity saved many of us.

I certainly think that there are some of the most beautiful, creative, caring, understanding, intelligent, giving people in the world right here in this room, and extending out into this site. Whenever I've needed understanding and just knew there was none out there to be found, I actually found it right here. I like to concentrate in what I can relate to with others...not on what I can't. What a gift that can be.

With more sincerity and respect than I can put into words,

KD