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Fuzzybear said:
trying to give someone the benefit of the doubt when triggered, when they directly went against my CLEAR and specific request where I gave CLEAR and specific reasons..... I do feel violated

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> wow fuzzy that sound frighteningly similar to a situation in our life back at the start of summer this year.

it IS a violation. what an awful feeling, eh?

please do what you need to for your health and safety. getting over the sense of feeling violated takes time depending on what is in one's past. we hope you find healing sooner than later.

just remember that healing is on YOUR terms and that your needs take priority. giving the benefit of the doubt is kind but often can diminish the hurt one really feels. hurt is hurt. violation is violation.