Black Canary, I developed feelings for my first T. It's an incredibly long story but in the end, I sent him an email wanting to terminate. I could not handle the incredibly intense feelings I was experiencing and our inability to talk about it in a way that was productive for either of us.( I would bring up transference and he would get really uncomfortable) T was disappointed and responded that he wanted to continue...He said, "Naturally, he wanted to work on these issues with me." When we met the next time, it was he who terminated me. I felt set-up.

I have since seen two other T's...one female for 1 1/2 yrs and a male T for a little over a year. I did not develop the strong feelings for EITHER of them like I did first T. I still struggle with the effects of my termination and my random encounters with him. I don't understand how I could develop and experience such strong feelings towards him and not any others.