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sometimes only acknowledgement/validation to their post is the best one can do.
another thing i do is put myself in their shoes and respond as tho it was where i am. -empathy.
this is a safe place to practice communication about feelings often times. like i'm chatty cathy but others may be more reserve about responding. all different degrees here.
i notice you are opening up and posting threads that concern you. that is a good thing! you can offer us thoughts/suggestion/feelings and we can do the same for you in this pc safe place.
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle.
The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand
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