ya you dont know half of the problems where. my sons dad is not a good man and he never wanted his son or a family. i never loved him and liked him i only stay with my sons father for my son. and the last time my son saw his real dad was back in 2001 christmas and that was not good too. my sons fathers parents are not better too. so my son is better off with out them. he has a sept dad that real cares about him and that is what he needs. sometimes kids are better off with out a parent i should know. i have two dads and they both are not good man. but thanks.