Thanks venus, i might look up some positions/dvds.

Cooper610 sorry to hear about your husband, it sounds like he needs to consult with a doctor about his mood And his problems with memory. It is hard when loved ones have mental illnesses, he may be i such despair with his own problems to think about someone else's feelings. In time i think he will. It's important for you two to communicate. I wish the best for you.

nowheregirl- Oh my gosh, I feel exactly the same with public anxiety and not wanting the ect. At times my public anxiety is better, but sometimes it can be so crippling i wont leave the house. I seclude myself alot, outside and in. I'm going through the painful process of coming out of isolation. slowly, very slowly. maybe we can talk to eachother about these things to help.