(((((salukigirl)))) i'm really sorry to hear you have epilepsy but glad to hear you finally got diagnosed. yeah, that would bother me too that he "forgets". my sister has narcissistic personality disorder and she doesn't remember anything either. i tend to think she just doesn't care but i can't know for sure why it happens. have you mentioned this to him and if so what does he say? maybe he just isn't the right guy for you. relationships do require work but they shouldn't require that much work, you know?