I have brought it up and he apologizes. One time he said that sometimes he wonders if he has some kind of disorder that keeps him from truly understanding social situations like that. I told him that's called narcissism which made him feel bad. Sometimes I wonder if he is.

He does do things to show me he cares like having dinner ready when I get home if it's been a long day or doing the laundry if he has a day off etc. I guess im just upset because those things happened today and I was really looking for some support and don't want to have to tell him 'support me!'