Innerzone, No need to feel guilty at all! Having you on here is wonderful, your a good person who cares, sometimes we cant always answer becausewe are struggling ourselves. We know how much you care and we love ya! I myself have those same thoughtsthat sometimes I dont respond lately either or if i ask for advice and cant do it back, I feel bad too Kinda why i'm up now. This is the best place with the most loving people