Thanks Dottie and Mandy.....

Mandy yes I think there was some misunderstanding too.... like when one person thinks they are being clear but the other person doesn't get it at the time because of their own triggered state and other reasons of miscommunication. That has happened to me in the past, and it could be a factor now too..... growl

Past triggers definitely apply too... on both sides I am sure

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Fuzzy