I'm not disagreeing with anyone specifically and yes I agree most of the blame is on the married /attached person - in this case a man. But I still think a great deal of responsibility lies on the person he's cheating with. Why would a single person want to deeply wound another person like this - for what - an exciting roll in bed...the wifes bed or where ever it happened. I've rejected married men before and it irks me to death when a married or attached male comes on to me. Sorry I'll step off my soap box now -since I've been electrifiably(not a real word lol) triggered by this.