Hi JuliBean and welcome back again sweetie. (((((HUGS))))),

I can tell you that as speaking as a guy, most guys just don't hang with someone unless they want too. The question I have for you is this ... If he has a problem hanging with you, what are you doing with him? He clearly has a reason why he doesn't want to be with you in public so that has to mean something, regardless of how stupid it may be.

I think you owe it to yoursel to be with someone that likes you and loves you over any group of friends and one that would be anxious to share you with people, or even, keep you to himself!

I realize you have feelings for this guy (although I wonder why after the way he has teated you), but hey, you're important too and need to look after yourself. You definately deserve much better!

If it were me, I'd be making some plans, plans that didn't include him, and those plans would be to find a man that would make me the center of his world.

Wishing you all the best and hopes it starts to work out for you,

Your friend Sam

"You'll never know what you're capable of if you don't try."