What hit me with your post is that you are "seeing your children". Sometime between work, depression, stress of life we forget we have treasures. Seeing a child is seeing beauty.
I think you took a very good step by letting your job go. Moving seems to have been a good idea too. By taking care of yourself you have find a peace you didn't have before. I know there is days that things doesn't go that well but you are in the right direction.
Keep going sweetie! You are just great!

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