Hey rhianno nice to meet you its just so hard its been three years and I indeed want to be happy I have told him we should try relationshipbcounseling but he repeatedly tells me they're gonna tell us the same thing he says on how to fix the relationship which I don't believe because there are situations where we don't know who's right or wrong I just don't wanna go into our 3rd year like this and if things are gonna change they need to change now because dec 15 will mark 3 years