And that's another problem because we have been together for three years and leaving him would be my last resort but I have continually tried to recommend we go to counseling but wjat he tells me is it isn't apoint of going because all they would do is tell me the same thing he is telling me on how to fix it which I don't believe. I believe since I'm 19 and he's 24 we are still premature about relationships and its problems that come along with it and in a lot of situations we don't know who's right or who's wrong and going to counseling would help out so much but he doesn't want to go