Shadowdancer,

This is one of the most well written and thoughtful posts I have ever read. You are an asset to this site. As are many here.

I have not been around much and probably should have been more. So I do not know that I have created hurt from what I have said but may certainly from what I have not said.

To all those I hurt for not replying and not appearing to be supportive I apologize. I care about all here.

Please please pull together and support each other. Too many have been hurt too much.