I wish you all the best w/ your dentist appt.- I know how scarry that can be... I just had to go through this as well, I hadn't been to a dentist for prolly 3 yrs (I know, bad) and things were fine but then I started noticing not only pain w/ hot/cold liquids but also dark spots on some teeth... so I dragged myself to a dentist... and now am left having to do fillings which are costing me so much $$$...... it really sucks. My dentist was confused as to why I had so much decay and asked whether my old dentist had noticed decay and told me about it... she says it needs to be fixed etc. but she never asked about an ed..... I was kind of expecting this question but I am so happy it didn't come up....I would have felt very uncomfortable espec. as I am currently not in treatment for my ed.... it is weird though, every time I go it almost feels like I am being punished for everything that I have done to my body.. like things are finally catching up w/ me...... and it feels so bad..... but I guess in a way this can be a wake up call. If you can be open w/ your dentist I'd do so just to make things easier and get the best treatment possible. (((hugs)))

the link to the website was really useful- thanks silver queen!