It sounds like your psychiatrist does get it...If you can't get through to your psychiatrist, you know, you could reach your GP. If he has hospital privileges, for sure, they can contact him for you, and he can contact the psychiatrist. Does the psychiatrist himself have hospital privileges? They'll reach him for you, if so, for sure. And they might be able to contact him, anyway.
What's the situation on getting help for you with the kids?