I did not say it to judge you, nor am i calling you stupid. i dont think your stupid at all, but i think you have to adress major causes of depression before you can start on the help for depression. It's like if you were a heroine addict, it would be like you going to treatment, getting clean then going back to live with a heroine addict at home. it can not work, it can not be successful, that how i feel about this situation. You can't work on the depression until you make some real changes in your life.